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Thursday, April 1, 2010

“Hello Eugene

This is a letter of gratitude.
I wanted to write to you so many times before but I just never could find the proper words to convey my gratitude in a satisfactory way.

During February 2009 Ina and I went to the South Coast on what would have been our last holiday together. During our trip I have informed her that I could not continue with our marriage. My problem was that I held on to the past steadfast to such an extent that it was impossible for me to forgive, there were many other unsolved issues and everything just became too much for me. (I was obviously totally un-aware of my “deeper” state of mind at that stage.)

Both Ina and I knew about you, as Jacko (our son) informed us about you, thus we have decided to pay you a visit while we were in the area.
Little did I know how drastically my life would change after that morning!
I have the conviction that you can see a lot more of people’s lives as what they care to show.
I remember we chatted about everything and else and then suddenly you looked at me in a strange way that made feel a bit uneasy, then you said these exact words to me;

“NEVER ALLOW YOUR PAST TO BECOME THE BLUEPRINT OF TOMORROW BECAUSE YOUR TOMORROW WILL BE EXACTLY YOUR PAST IF YOU DO SO”

Something very strange happened to me at that moment, I do not know what you did to me, but that was the start of a new life for me, so much so that I told Ina to forget what I have said to her on the way to the coast (regarding our marriage) because everything has changed.

That day was the start of the greatest and most beautiful part of my life, and up to now you have given me so much advice over the telephone that I will have to write a letter as long as my arm should I write it down! Yet there are a few things that you have taught me that I would like to emphasize;
The first thing is that you have taught me about VOID, (sitting Void) this practice is the beginning of all and the end of all and by this simple practice so many psychic doors are opened that it will be impossible to articulate!
You have taught me about positive and negative energy fields and you taught me that I have a choice about which one I want active in my life!
You also taught me how to harness these positive energy fields!
You taught me the power of Will and how to accomplish the impossible!
You proved to me that the human brain has power over any problem and that the positive can be increased if we concentrate on that.
The text I received from you just the other day emphasizes it so beautifully:

“If you think in the way that you’ve always thought, you will get what you’ve always got!”

Most of all I would like to thank you for the secret of W.E.T.A. that you shared with me, now I know that I.T. is real (subjective experience) and that it is an aid to any life.
Ever since I started to live the AZA way my life is a joy after joy and I will persist in this quest, no matter what!
I am eternally grateful that you crossed my path and it is my wish that every-one on this planet may meet you so that they may share in these abundant gifts of joy!

May you be blessed in your quest to make this world a better place and thank you once more!
I want the whole world to see this letter, so that they may find the courage to go to you and be free!

Tinus Smit”

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THREE TIPS ON SAFE LIVING

THREE KEYS TO SAFE LIVING

"One good way of winning a fight is to avoid it!"

1. BE CONSCIOUS OF YOUR ENVIRONMENT'S BASIC ROUTINE

Everything in the manifested universe functions on habit (basic modus operandi), whenever a predator enters the scene, things tend to change! Get to know the routine of your environment, everything out-of-the-ordinary spells danger! When you get home, be aware, are your pets acting normal? You wake up at night, are the night-sounds as usual? Make a conscious study of your everyday basic surroundings; it can save your life and it can be a lot of fun on top of that!

2. START MOLDING YOUR CONDUCT STRATEGICALLY

Never sleep, go to the toilet or bath with an unlocked door, whenever you are more vulnerable than normal, be prepared!

Do keep the volume of your TV /Radio down and do not watch TV with your back to an open door. Have five different strategies worked out in your mind and if confronted, remember to scream as loud and continuous as possible.

Please remember, if there is one criminal in front of you, there will already be two or more behind you!

When nearing an auto-bank, be wide awake; memorize the position of the keys on the key board and cover your hand with your wallet while entering your pin-code! The moment you realize there's trouble, hit "cancel", if the card remains stuck type a false 'pin-code' in, three times (visibly), then leave the scene as quickly as possible. Remember to phone and cancel your card immediately!

Memorize emergency numbers and teach these numbers to your kids! In case of injury use 082 911 first, as they are more likely to respond. Memorize your local security company's number (in case 10111 remains engaged) since they are also likely to respond immediately.(Numbers relevant to South Africa, people in other parts of the world will have different emergency numbers)

3. GET TO KNOW YOUR OWN SUB-CONSCIOUS-WORKINGS

Some say one will never really know how you will react in a "real" situation. Well, in the face of proper analysis, this is simply not true!

Every person on this planet has experienced some kind of emergency at some stage in the past…maybe your dogs started fighting, or you were insulted by an aggressive stranger etc. How did you react? That reaction/non reaction is your basic modus operandi and you cannot change that! Yet, you can work out your strategy accordingly, therefore, what you at first denied (or were ashamed of), will now become your strong-point. Also keep in mind that "anger-induced adrenalin" will have a different effect on your conduct than "fear-induced adrenalin"!

If your strategies do not relate to your character, your self-defense will be rendered useless!

'Running away to fetch help' (even if you temporarily abandon someone) is also a form of self-defense and statistically, criminals do tend to leave immediately if a victim escapes!

But if possible, please kill them…

AZA - The Way

“Whenever I talk about “The Way”, it should not be seen as a mere concept, seeing that it is far more than a concept!

It is an experience, a way of living, a way of striving..., but not the ordinary striving after some-idea, but a striving for no-thing, just for the sake of striving. It is a yearning to experience the greatness of being in the ‘here-and-the-now!’

The Free-Warrior, while traveling on “The Way” has no need for props from the external world, no need for compliments, for shoulders to cry on, and no need for super flues gifts of any kind!

When the ordinary world of the average person dissolved into an abysmal void, the ‘Travelers of The Way’ started their journey to Mastery as ‘Silent Witnesses’ of existence.

They travel alone, where they draw from their own convictions all the Power necessary to overcome any obstacle that may arise on the Secret Path.

They see no need for complaining or for peoples praise, yet their Solitude are filled with Mystery, with a kind of Silent Knowing the average world will never know...”

-Eugene -

Quotation from Memoirs of a Virtual Illiterate

COGNITIVE PROGRESS

Close to fifty years ago, the French progressive psychologist Jean Piaget (1952) articulated a theory of how children think about and comprehend their environment. This theory includes four stages that have proven useful in understanding the cognitive progress of children. The sensory-motor stage (0 – 2 years) transpires from birth to about two years of age. During this stage children learn by sensing and by doing. Since infants have not heard language long enough to understand it well, they learn through what they see, hear, taste, smell and feel. At first, children do not understand that things they cannot see still exist; therefore they are unable to think about things that are not in plain view. This stage changes at about age eighteen months. As children get better at using conceptual symbols for things that are not present, they are progressing into the pre-operational stage. The pre-operational stage (2 – 7 years) lasts from about age two until about age seven. Children at this stage have realized that they are independent beings, and they have a strong inclination to think that all other people see the world the same way they do. This characteristic is called "egocentrism".

Egocentrism causes children to think the world solely revolves around them. They may appear selfish, but this stage is crucial to the development of healthy self-image. The concrete operational stage

(7 – 11 years), from about age 7 to about age 11, is characterized by the ability to perform conceptual operations. These children can formulate concrete complications in their heads, and they learn that these difficulties can be reversed. Children enter the formal operational stage (11 and up) at about age 11 or twelve. This stage lasts throughout adulthood, and is characterized by the capability to reason theoretically. They can make predictions about hypothetical situations, and they can use inductive and deductive reasoning.

SOCIAL DEVELOPMENT

In The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry, Harry Stack Sullivan (1953) identifies three stages of social development in pre-adolescent children.

1. In the first stage, from ages two to five, adults are the most important people in children's lives. They depend on grown-ups like mom, dad and other authorities to meet all of their basic needs.

2. The second stage lasts from about age four to eight. In this stage, children depend on their same-age peers for companionship, but the friendships are usually superficial and self-serving. These friendships are typically fleeting in duration.

3. The third stage, from ages 8 to 11, is called the companion-ship stage. Children in this stage usually form very strong attachments to peers of the same sex.

Strong friendships with same-sex peers continue throughout the teen years, but children also become interested in peers of the opposite sex. The chapter entitled "Personal Growth and Social Development" (The Interpersonal Theory of Psychiatry) will provide you with more information about sexual attraction and relationships during the teen years.

MORAL DEVELOPMENT

The most commonly cited theory of moral development is that of Lawrence Kohlberg (1969, 1981, and 1984). Kohlberg believed that moral development occurs through three levels of moral reasoning.

1. In level one, called pre-conventional reasoning, children have no internal moral values. Their moral reasoning, and consequently their behaviour, is controlled by external rewards and punishments. These external controls include natural consequences as well as rewards and punishments imposed by parents and other authority figures. Most children who are nursery age and younger use this type of moral reasoning.

2. The second level, conventional reasoning, involves the use of moral standards from external sources. A child may obey rules because he or she wants to be thought of as a "good girl" or a "good boy". They later understand that rules and laws are for the common good, (the social order), and follow these rules out of a sense of duty. Most school age children and younger adolescent children make moral decisions based on conventional reasoning.

3. The third level, post conventional reasoning, involves making moral decisions based on internalized standards that are one's own. People at this level realize that values and standards may vary from one person to another, and they make decisions based on the values upon which rules are based, rather than the rules themselves.

Since this type of reasoning involves abstract thought, most children do not reach this level until they are well into the formal operational stage of cognitive development.

As parents gain a better understanding of how children develop, they are able to mold their interactions to meet their child's needs. This is the essence of real communication between parents and children.

References

Kohlberg, L. (1969). Stage and sequence: The cognitive-developmental approach to socialization. In D. A. Goslin (Ed.), Handbook of socialization theory and research. New York: Rand McNally. Kohlberg, L. (1981). Essays on moral development, Vol. 1, the philosophy of moral development. San Francisco: Harper & Row. Kohlberg, L. (1984). Essays on moral development, Vol. 2, the psychology of moral development. San Francisco: Harper & Row. Piaget, J. (1952). The origins of intelligence in children. New York: International Universities Press. Sullivan, H. S. (1953). The interpersonal theory of psychiatry. New York:

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